Love is not always about gaining

Love is not always about gaining, it's losing too. If I don't accept this fact, I am selfish. My love is not selfish. I can love even without his being with me. I learned a lot from this. My pain is very less compared to the majority out there, who don't have food to eat, are scared of living each moment, are heartbroken, some whom another has cheated, and some who are alone. I feel love for the oppressed, and the weak but feel helpless to do something for them.